【自爱】>【被爱】

今晚来到自己的部落格，无意间浏览回几年前的自己写过帖子，竟然不会觉得幼稚或害臊。毕竟都是自己亲身经历过的事情，是一段属于自己过去的回忆。
无论是好是坏，许多回忆顿时涌上心头。

看着看着我发现，自己现在的想法竟然跟以前的没有太大的不同。
生气讨厌的事，依旧讨厌，不曾放下过；美丽开心的事，依旧能让嘴角不自觉上扬。
往坏的方面想，可以说自己依然执着、固执；往好的方面想，代表自己依然坚持。

我真的很爱我自己，不喜欢让自己受伤、尽量让自己心情保持愉悦。

记得我曾经跟不少人说过这句话：“爱人之前要先学会爱自己，不然你连爱一个人的权利都没有。连自己都照顾保护不了，你要怎么去保护你爱的人呢？”

 

谢谢在我生命中的每个过客，让我学会了“自爱”，然后“去爱”，最后“被爱”。

满意现状

我非常满意目前的生活模式。

每天早上七点起床，梳洗后，
享受个美好的早餐。
驾个十五分钟的车程 (完全没有塞车)，
即可抵达公司门口。
P/S:大多数的都市人每天都得在车龙中挤啊塞啊，

根本没有时间吃早餐。

虽然公司规模不大，
胜在老板同事和蔼可亲，
都很愿意指导还是菜缴付泊车费，
拥有自己的办公室，
办公室明亮宽敞，硬体设备齐全，
工作系统简易摩登 ，没得弹。

午餐时间，身处在美食天堂的Bandar Mahkota Cheras，

根本不会没有食欲。

一转眼就到了下班时间。
下班时间准时，无需加班，
这是多少同行羡慕的工作啊！

下班回家，和家人享用晚餐，
玩玩脸书，追追香港连续剧，
看看 Running Man， 看看《爸爸，去哪儿》，

又哭又笑，好痛快。

星期六早上，和家人用个早餐，
下午，跟我的小羊儿约会，
看看电影，牵牵手儿，

逛逛书局和精品店，最幸福了。

星期天早上，和妹子吃个早餐，
到音乐学院教教琴。
既能把苦练十年的钢琴传给下一代，
又能练练琴，不让自己的琴艺生熟，
最重要是能赚点零用钱，何乐而不为呢？

律师楼的薪水加上钢琴课的外快，

不多不少，还够让我缴付车贷 ，

这样的生活还能嫌吗？

感恩我现在所拥有的一切，

感恩啊～

Call to The Bar - 5th Sept 2014

3 years LLB

+

1 year CLP

+

9 months Pupillage

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My path to be a lawyer

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Today is my turn to be called to the bar and my Long Call speech as follow:-

Dengan izin Yang Arif,

Saya, Siva Kumar Kanagasabai, peguam yang mewakili Pempetisyen, Tan Lai Yee yang hadir pada pagi ini.

Yang Arif, hari ini telah ditetapkan untuk petisyen penerimaan masuk Pempetisyen. Saya dengan rendah diri memohon kebenaran Mahkamah yang Mulia ini untuk berhujah dalam Bahasa Inggeris.

If it pleases My Lady, it gives me great honour to introduce the Petitioner, TAN LAI YEE.

My Lady,

The Petitioner who hails from Kuala Lumpur is the eldest child of 3 children born to Mr. Tan Teck Wee and Madam Ho Hong Ling, who are present in court today. The Petitioner received her primary education at SJK(C) Naam Kheung and her secondary education at SMK Cochrane. She later read law at Brickfields Asia College and completed her degree under the UK Degree Transfer Programme at the University of Aberystwyth graduating in 2012 with a First Class Honours.

Upon her return to Kuala Lumpur, she obtained her Certificate in Legal Practice in 2013 under a full scholarship awarded by Brickfields Asia College. Thus, she came to law and commenced pupilage under the guidance of my learned friend, Ms. Goh Siu Lin of Messrs. Shook Lin & Bok. The Petitioner has had a fruitful and challenging pupillage period with Messrs Shook Lin and Bok.

Spikes and thorns laid this path, tears and sweats must be shed to come this far, yet she does not retract and still enjoys the journey ahead. The reason being that the Petitioner just loves law. And today this union would unleash her to wield the sword of justice, for those who are in need and to shield those who are being persecuted. Today is symbolic and she is thrilled at the prospect of a career in law, drawing her inspiration from Steve Jobs:

 “Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.”

On this special day, the Petitioner would like to express her gratitude to the people who have been her pillars of strength and source of encouragement throughout the years.  

First of all, the Petitioner would like to honour her parents whom have nurtured her with unconditional love and guidance. She acknowledges that her dream of having an overseas education had made financial dents to their pockets. She is grateful for their financial sacrifice and their confidence in her abilities which enabled her today to release her dreams of being a lawyer. Their faith had reinforced her will to excel in all her endeavours. She would like to express her love to her younger siblings - Tan Lai Joo and Tan Keng Yi, she is appreciative of their support and understanding especially during her preparations for the Certificate of Legal Practice examinations.

The Petitioner would like to record her utmost appreciation to her pupil master, Ms. Goh Siu Lin for her patience and her willingness to share her thoughts and advice. The Petitioner also wishes to thank her seniors at Shook Lin & Bok, Mr. Dang Pek Chuan, Mr. Lim Wei Lih and Ms. Bong Ying Wei for their friendship, patience, guidance and encouragement during her pupilage.

To the Petitioner’s fellow pupils in Shook Lin & Bok, especially, Ms. Yong Jin San, a huge thank you for keeping the Petitioner sane when things got tough in the office. The Petitioner will always cherish the memorable times at work and leisure, including the good times during the futsal practices and tournament with all the SLB pupils.

The Petitioner would like to extend her gratitude to a very special person, Mr. Yeoh Choun Jin, who shares her every moment of ups and down, joy and victory. At the same time, she also wishes to thank all her close friends, Ms. Chuah Xiao Fen, Ms. Phin Han Yin, Mr. Teo Kui Cheng, Ms. Ng Zhi Ying, Mr. Chia Swee Ann and those who have graced this occasion with their presence as well as those who are unable to be present here today. The Petitioner feels truly blessed to be surrounded by such true friends and thanks them for their friendship and support all these years. 

Last but not least, the Petitioner would like to thank her mover, Mr. Siva Kumar Kanagasabai for taking off time from his busy schedule to move her call.

Today marks the beginning of another journey of the Petitioner, she will strive to be a good lawyer, who serves justice and those in need and is guided by the words of the iconic Mahatma Gandhi “Be the change you want to see in this world”.

My Lady,

I verily believe that all cause papers are in order and that Petitioner is a fit and proper person to be admitted and enrolled as an Advocate & Solicitor. I also believe that my learned friends representing the relevant parties have no objections to this Petition.

Therefore, I pray that the Petitioner, Tan Lai Yee be admitted and enrolled as an Advocate & Solicitors at the High Court of Malaya.

Much obliged, My Lady. 

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Photo Gallery

 

 

Celebration after the Long Call

Thanks for all the flowers.

Wichday Cafe Taman Connaught Review

终于来到这家餐厅。 

（P/S: 之前每次要来都总是有缘无份，

 基本上这家餐厅公共假期和周末都不开店。

很大牌哦！）

店里的坏境如下图：

以绿色和白色为主，墙上有木马和游乐场的壁纸。

我们点的饮料和食物如下：

草莓巧克力冰沙

评分：4/5 （意外惊喜，比想象中顺口）

抹茶拿铁

（只供热饮 ）

评分：2/5（喝到最后很多抹茶渣）

水蜜桃苏打

评分：4/5（甜度适中）

玉米脆片+虾卵蟹柳卷+沙拉

评分：2/5 （卖相不错，但是口感一般）

虾卵奶油意大利面

评分：3/5（味道普通，仍有进步空间）

黑胡椒鸡排+干炒意大利面

评分：1/5

 （味道完全不像黑胡椒鸡排，而且用鸡胸肉，口感很粗，

意大利面也炒到很干。）

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压轴登场！

须要预定才吃得到的潘多拉盒子(Pandora Box)，

价格为RM15.90。

Pandora Box

评分：5/5 （卖相满分，而且内有乾坤。）

剖开来里面竟然不是空心的，内容包罗万有。

有一颗巧克力雪糕，一颗草莓雪糕，铺满新鲜草莓和香蕉， 

还有玉米脆片、汤圆和棉花糖，

另外还附上蜂蜜给你沾面包吃呢！

卖相这么好，又这么难得才吃到，当然要自拍几张啦！

三个女生的快乐时光！

Wichday Café 

地址：195, Jalan Sarjana, Taman Connaught, Cheras, Kuala Lumpur.
电话：012 -214 9061
营业时间： Mon, Tues, Thurs & Friday: 11am to 7pm
Wed & Saturday: 11am to 3pm
Closed on Sunday

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